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By: Miranda Garcia AKA The Money Queen
02/02/2022
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Lets just take a moment to speak on a topic that I personally don’t ever really speak on often. One because I am not perfect. 2 Because, I am no specialist and 3 because, it's a difficult topic that everyone gets mixed up often. But, it's a topic that needs to be spoken on. So many people act like life is all about finding a partner or being in a “RELATIONSHIP” or “Love”. Way too many get it confused and go searching for all the wrong reasons.
Life is not about that at all. It’s so sad to see so many out here jumping from one to another trying to find “the right one”. Having kids with the wrong ones n getting trapped in “life's traditional cycles”. Because either they are too busy trying to copy the big beautiful picture society paints or trying to fill the void of losing their parents or having a dysfunctional bond with them as stats have shown.
Back in 1990's and before. It was "The Dream" to have a partner: man and woman. Where the men worked and the women cared for the home. When Marriage was very important to do. It’s 2022 a new generational evolution and a transition has begun. Its not longer the way of life. We have grown and evolved. There is wasyy more things to worry about then a relationship, love or marriage.
Some who don't know me, be like “girl you're in a relationship, you got it all…“ Haha well short story time!! the ones who do know me. Know our relationship is true destiny. That’s how it’s supposed to be! I never wanted a relationship neither did he. It just happened. We both had enough in our past lives and been through way too much individually. Nether of us were ever looking. I truly believe it was the universe. We were really both just focused on ourselves. living totally separate lives. We knew each other growing up to around 2007 and split ways. Somehow in 2013 we reunited and here we are 9 years later. (Speak of manifestation at it’s finest lol. He has always been a dream come true 🤩.lol) So my point is dream big but expect nothing, don't stress over what you don't get. When you are ready and you can handle it and the universe knows it. It will all come together and happen just when you least expect it.
You know that saying “ if you love someone let them go for if they return it was meant to be. If they don’t return it never was destiny.” It’s really real, what’s meant to be will truly be. Don’t sweat what everyone else has. Focus on what is already planned for your own path!
Just as to childhood, teenage life, adulthood to overcoming addictions nd deaths all have phases. There are also phases to a relationship /love too. Most don’t fully understand or even know these phases exist. All they want is the “love picture” society paints.
Love is actually the “energy” we experience, it’s not even physical or a “feeling” it’s a Natural instinct, a force of sensation within the chemistry. It’s actually a chemical reaction. Love creates higher levels of dopamine's and a related hormone, norepinephrine, is released during attraction. These chemicals make us giddy, energetic, and euphoric. Another reason for why so many are attached to getting ”a fix”, (finding "Love" or a "relationship).
Relationships are the physical portion to true love. You can be in love and have a relationship without even living together. Relationships are not what people make them out to be. N that is why most don’t last more than 3 years; 2 years and 9 months is the average to be exact…. That’s when the “honeymoon stage” normally ends and the tension begins the most often. That is why most just give up and lose interest.
The 5 most known phases of a relationship are the 1. Merge/honeymoon stage, 2.Doubt/Denial/hardship, 3.Disillusionment/flaws, 4.Decision/acceptance/rejection, and 5.Wholehearted Love/Commitment. Each phase can vary in timing and is known to cycle every 5-10 years….
Science and stats have shown that single people are more happy and live longer. Because, they have less worry and stress… even leading to decreased appetite and insomnia – which means you actually can be so “in love” that you can't eat and can't sleep. This is a lot of times where jealousy and suspicions begin for no reason. Causing more stress and depression than someone who’s single.
So before you go searching for a relationship or wishing for one. Keep in mind relationships are a lot of very hard work and takes a lot of . Ask yourself is it worth it. Are you ready for the sacrifices, can you handle the relapse and cycles? Are you willing to build the chemistry and accept the flaws coming?
It’s more than just having “someone “ by your side to care about each other, or “trying” to be with or prove something to someone who constantly rejects you or doesn't even care.
Don’t be so hard on yourself if you can’t get a grip on being in a relationship. It’s possible you are not ready, even though you think you are. Possibly you’re better off and most powerful alone. If it is meant to be; whenever you are ready you will know and it will all naturally come and fall into place when you’re least expecting.
The wise once said that we can't make anyone feel or do anything they don’t want to. Trust the universe and Always REMEMBER
You Are BRAVER than you believe STRONGER than you seem SMARTER than you think
and more LOVED than you will ever know.
#XoXo #TheMoneyQueen
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